EXPECTATION IN RELATIONSHIPS IS MYTH?

 HELLO EVERYONE I WANT TO SHARE SOMETHING WHICH I HAVE BEEN LEARNING AND EXPEREINCING NOW A DAYS WITH RESPECT TO LOVE AND EXPECTATION IN ANY RELATIONSHIPS WE HAVE AS HUMAN BEINGS.

AS A HUMAN BEING WE ALL NEED LOVE .LOVE IS OUR VITAL NEED.LOVE IS OF PARAMOUNT IMPROTANCE IN OUR LIFE.WE ALL WANT TO RECEIVE LOVE BUT MY DEAR FRINDS  YOU KNOW WHAT ? THERE IS THIS MAGICAL RULE ABOUT LOVE,

LOVE IS WITHIN YOU THERE IS THIS RULE  WITH LOVE IS THAT,"YOU NEED TO GIVE OUT LOVE IRRESPECTIVE OF YOU ARE GETTING IT''.

DONT WAIT FOR YOUR LOVED ONE TO GIVE YOU LOVE ,START GIVING IT NOW.

 MOST OF YOU WILL SAY HOW IS IT POSSIBLE TO POUR YOUR LOVE WHEN YOU ARE NOT GETTING IT IN RETURN.

SO  MY DEAR FRIENDS GIVING AND RECIEVING HAPPENS IN BUSSIENS ONLY. LOVE IS NOT BUSSINES WHERE YOU CAN KEEP ACCOUNTS OF WHAT HAS BEEN GIVEN OR RECEIVED.IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH PROFIT OR LOSS

LOVE IS EXPERINED ONLY WHEN YOU GIVE IT .WETHER YOU GIVE IT TO ANOTHER HUMAN OR TO ANY OTHER ANIMAL.

HAVE YOU EXPERINED IT THAT WHEN YOU GIVE LOVE TO YOUR PET OR ANY OTHER ANIMAL.YOU START FEELING PURITY ,LOVE AND PEACE WITHINAUTOMATICALLY.

NOW WHAT IS HAPPENING IN OUR LIFE IS WE ARE CONTINOUSLY GETTING REJECTION ,BETRAYAL  AND HURT FROM THE PEOPLE WE LOVE AND CARE .

 SO WE HAVE LOCKED OURSELVES IN A  CLOSED CABINET WHERE NEITHER WE ARE  ALLOWING ANYONE TO ENTER NOR WE ARE REACHING OUT TO PEOPLE SO TELL ME ? HOW WE WILL GET LOVE ????

NOW LETS UNDERSTAND WHY WE HAVE LOCKED OUR DOORS TO OTHER PEOPLE BEACUSE WE HAVE CERTAIN EXPECTATION FROM OTHER PERSON WITH OUR LOVED ONE.

 ANY SORT OF RELATIONSHIP, BE IT MOTHER- DAUGHTER,FATHER -SON HUSBAND- WIFE AND  GIRLFRIEND -BOYFRIND AND SO ON.........

WE NEED TO KNOW THAT EVERYPERSON HAS SOME WEKANESS AND STRENGTH DON NOT COMPARE YOURSELF WITH ANY OTHER PERSON KEEP REMINDING YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE UNIQUE AND SO AS EVERYONE 

OUR EXPECTATIONS ARE BASED ON OUR UNDERSTANDING OF LIFE,OUR KNOWLEDGE, OUR UPBRINGING AND SO MANY OTHER FACTORS.

ALL THESE  FACTORS ARE DIFFERENT FOR EACH ONE OF US HENCE WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT EXPECTATION.

BOTH PEOPLE IN ANY RELATIONSHIP WILL SUERLY HAVE DIFFERENT EXPECTATIONS FROM EACH OTHER .

THE UNFORTUNATE THING IS THAT WE ASSUME THAT ANOTHER PERSON WILL AUTOMATICALY  UNDERSTAND AND EXECUTE THEM.BUT THIS IS NOT THE CASE HERE IT IS NOT  GOING TO HAPPEN TRUST ME,

IF WE LOVE SOMEONE WE DO NOT NEED TO EXPECT OR ASSUME THAT HE OR SHE WILL BEHAVE THE THE WAY I WANT THEM TO BEHAVE.THEY WILL BEHAVE THE NEED TO BEHAVE WITH THERIR OWN STRENTYHS AND WEAKNESS.GIVE THEM THIS FREEDOM TO LERAN AND UNLEARN ON THEIR OWN.DO NOT IMPOSE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THEM .

WE AS HUMAN BEING HAVE DIFFERENT JOURNEY IN OUR LIVES,JUST GIVE THIS MUCH ATTENTION TO THIS FACT AND DO NOT SEEK OUT FOR LOVE.

BECOME THE SOURCE OF LOVE AND REMEMBER YOU ARE DOING THIS NOT TO PLEASE   OR IMPRESSYOUR LOVED ONE .YOU ARE DOING SO BECAUSE YOU WANT TO FEEL AND EXPERINCE  THE LOVE

SO OPEN YOUR HEART AND START PRACTISING THIS AS ANY THER RITUAL YOU DO AND BELIVE ME YOU WILL BECOME MORE PEACEFULL ,HAPPY AND CONTENTED PERSON.

OUR EXPECTATIONS ARE BASED ON OUR UNDERSTANDING OF LIFE,OUR KNOWLEDGE, OUR UPBRINGING AND SO MANY OTHER FACTORS.

ALL THESE  FACTORS ARE DIFFERENT FOR EACH ONE OF US HENCE WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT EXPECTATION.

BOTH PEOPLE IN AN RELATIONSHIP WILL SUERLY HAVE DIFFERENT EXPECTATIONS FROM EACH OTHER .

THE UNFORTUNATE THING IS TRHAT WE ASSUME THAT ANOTHER PERSON WILL AUTOMATICALY  UNDERSTAND AND EXECUTE THEM.BUT THIS IS NOT THE CASE HERE IT IS NOT  GOING TO HAPPEN.

IF WE LOVE SOMEONE WE DO NOT NEED TO EXPECT OR ASSUME THAT HE OR SHE WILL BEHAVE THE THE WAY I WANT THEM TO BEHAVE.THEY WILL BEHAVE BASED ON THEIR OWN LEARNING AND TEACHINGS.

A PERSON WHO IS TRUE LOVE WILL SPONTANEUOSLY LEARN THESE THINGS BEACAUSE LOVE TEACHES THEM ALL OF  THINGS VERY BEUTIFYULLY.

 IF YOU NEED LOVE AND OFCOURSE YOU NEDD LOVE ,SO STOP WAITING FOR IT TO RECEIVE, START GIVING NOT TO PLEASE YOUR LOVED ONE BUT TO PLEASE YOURSELF.

STAY HAPPY 

KEEP LEARNING

KEEP LOVING YOUR LOVED ONE

THANKS FOR YOUR TIME