How to handle misbehaving children

  Nowadays Dealing with our own children has become real issue in our families.  We say that Children's of today,s generation are very impatient, they don't listen to us ,they do whatever they want to do without our permission and the complain list is never ending.

I think these statements must have been given by our parent too, their parents and then their parents to their childrens too.

So I guess this is not something new what we are hearing today.

Actually parents of every generation must have gone through this situation wherein as a parent we find  several ways to be perfect parent,for which we put in all the efforts , but at the end everything seems to be all in vein.

Now what makes me curious is ,if this is an  ancient problem then why it appears new to every parent.

In this article I will be sharing The cause of misbehaving children and the solution to resolve this issue on the basis of my experience as a mother of 7 years old daughter.

First of all we should know few things before jumping in to the solution. We should carefully look in to the problem.

• We need to be emotionally mature as a parent,no doubt we are biologically mature to be a parent but before becoming parent we need to check our emotional maturity also.
• We have a huge responsibility of giving new  sensible generation to the society. For that first of all we need to be sensible enough to pass on that sense to upcoming generation.
• We can not graft our children,s life .all we can do is  to provide them  everything needed for their betterment.every children is unique in nature.

Here we go with the tools, which we can use to make our childrens cordial with ourselves

1. Stop complaining and criticising your ward
2. Give them love and utmost attention
3. Allow them to realise their deeds 
4. Turn your self into what you want them to be.

Now what happens when I complain and criticise my daughter she start questioning and become reluctant.

Then I give her attention and admire her  for her good behaviour.

Only then she listen to me and surrender herself to me.

After having emotional stability, she herself realize what is wrong to do and what is right to do.

Every child is unique. I belive that every child is like raw clay we can turn that clay into whatever shape we want to till it got dried up.

What kind of sanskar we want in our children is totally up to us as a parent.

If we want our children to be calm ,peaceful and respectful to other, then we need to behave like that.

We have to become peaceful ,calm and respectful.

The parents can immensely impact their children's mindset.

Try to understand the uniqueness of your child and enjoy your motherhood .

Regards

Sapna pandey